My bf told me that if I don’t do everything he wants in bed, we won’t have sex at all (and the relationship won’t last) TW: assault

2022.01.20 23:19 bubblytea127 My bf told me that if I don’t do everything he wants in bed, we won’t have sex at all (and the relationship won’t last) TW: assault

(this actually happened recently and we broke up since then, but I just want to know what the right thing to do is, in a situation like this) We were having sex and he did something that hurt me. I said stop multiple times, and he kept going so I just laid there. He was like, “what’s wrong?” and I said he was hurting me. He got upset and stopped everything, and gave me the cold shoulder and put on a show. I asked why he stopped, and he sarcastically said that’s what I wanted. I said I only wanted him to stop what was hurting me. He told me if I don’t let him do whatever he wants to me while we’re having sex, we won’t have sex. And he had also told me without sex, the relationship won’t work. (Btw these things he needed me to accept include having sex in a position that hurts me without foreplay, choking which he knows I have ptsd over, and slapping my face so hard it kind of stuns me)
I had made it clear to him before that boundaries are important to me, and he violated my boundaries a few times already so I had said this wasn’t working out. But then he promised he will respect my boundaries. After I grew closer and more attached, this happened. There are other things he also pressured me into accepting, by holding the relationship over my head once I became attached. Like I can’t yell even when he’s being physically rough with me and blocks me from leaving the room, which I have told him causes me to panic and triggers my ptsd. I didn’t yell on purpose, I just panicked and needed to leave the room so I got louder telling him to stop and let me leave the room.
I actually was so attached by this point, from his love bombing and idk if there was a trauma bond, that I didn’t leave him. Instead I tried to do whatever he wanted and felt even more devastated when he dumped me. He said he was pissed because I should have broken up with him, and he’s mad someone else of going to abuse me. He said I get mad too easily, but he also said my complaints are valid and other girls complained about the same thing from him. He said he needs to work on himself and he actually wanted me to break up with him because he knew he was mean to me. He had become very distant even though he promised he wouldn’t be, told me we were good even though I could tell we weren’t. He kept making plans with me which he kept flip flopping on daily. I got really stressed out because he was so back and forth, and I tried to convince him to work things out like he promised, and he blocked me. Now I feel empty like he broke me. I started off with self respect and boundaries. I trusted him because my friend told me he’s a good guy. Why did this happen?
I feel like I must have no self respect, looking back at what I was willing to accept from him. But I wasn’t willing to accept these things in the beginning. He promised me he would respect my boundaries I was ready to break up over, but once I trusted him and became attached he did a 180 and started controlling me by always threatening a breakup, and then going back and forth and driving me crazy. Why did this happen? I can’t afford a therapist. Idk what to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
submitted by bubblytea127 to relationship_advice [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 suni4b3 Kavya sree😋

Kavya sree😋 submitted by suni4b3 to sweatyindian [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Normal_Eagle_3100 Attire for oath of renunciation

I am taking the oath of renunciation soon and it says "no casual wear such as shorts, t shirts, slippers and jeans. Any advice on what to wear? can I wear collar shirt with long pants and school shoes? Also, as someone who is below 21, what do I need to bring?
submitted by Normal_Eagle_3100 to askSingapore [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Legal_Examination230 Two Roosters Eat Seeds Off Each Other

Two Roosters Eat Seeds Off Each Other submitted by Legal_Examination230 to cute [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Jarane Check out this passive aggressive BS. At a ski resort of all places …

Check out this passive aggressive BS. At a ski resort of all places … submitted by Jarane to antiwork [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 prawnbiryani #unsplashcats #cute #adorable #kittens #cats #followformore

#unsplashcats #cute #adorable #kittens #cats #followformore submitted by prawnbiryani to unsplashcats [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 peterwolfe13 Easy of Freshwater Cartridge Replacement Purchases

Anyone else find that its difficult to get these cartridges. I found that the only way to get them to to drive to the dealer which is not close by. I found that Corporate HotSprings forces this and wont allow anyone including their dealers to sell online. Although I could have dealer send it to me my dealer discouraged it because they not realy setup for shipping. Plus my own concerns of the dealer not processing or keeping credit card securely on a phone transaction when they are not setup for remote sales. I have emailed corporate and they wont offer any option but to go to dealer or disable the salt system completly which is frustrating.
Anyone know a way to get them elsewhere without compromising my credit card with a hocum dealer taking it over the phone?
submitted by peterwolfe13 to HotspringSpas [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 AccurateEmu9062 I will grow him to be apart of the stg family

I will grow him to be apart of the stg family submitted by AccurateEmu9062 to STGFamily [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Numerous_Tomatillo92 👙 Bikini Booty 🍑| Just Launched 🚀 | ✅ Major Marketing Already Started | x1000 Gem 🚀| BUSD Rewards 💵 | The SEXIEST BSC Token 💋

Welcome to Bikini Booty, the world's next king meme token.
🚀 Telegram: https://t.me/BikiniBooty
💥 Contract: 0x7f5ff221062a344967d987c79ff80c96b52de041
🌐 Buy here: https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0x7f5ff221062a344967d987c79ff80c96b52de041
⚙️ TOKENOMICS
Total Supply: 100,000,000,000
💵 0% tax buy - 12% tax sell
🐶5% Floki Rewards
📰 2.5 % to Marketing
🔥 3% to Liquidity
👥 1.5% to Team
💻 Website Coming Very Soon
👑 Hold and earn BUSD
Bikini Booty is revolutionizing the metaverse. Soon, we will have full metaverse integration along with Play-2-Earn gaming. Early holders will reap the most rewards, so get in now!
submitted by Numerous_Tomatillo92 to SatoshiBets [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Whycanticryinthebath Favorite Grey’s Anatomy song??

Mine are
Breathe by Anna Nalick
What Can I Say by Brandi Carlile
How To Save A Life by The Fray
Keep Breathing by Ingrid Michaelson
They by Jem
Without You by Ingrid Michaelson
I Think I’m In Love by Kat Dahlia
Holding Us Back by Katie Herzig
Somewhere Only We Know by Keane
Everywhere I Go by Lissie
Breathe Deep by Sleeping At Last
Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol
Where Does The Good Go by Tegan and Sara
Fix You Up by Tegan and Sara
Walk With Me by GoldFord
Lost and Found by Katie Herzig
Nothing But Time by Opus Orange
Hymn by Bjéar
Paradise by Coldplay
Bad Day by Daniel Powter
submitted by Whycanticryinthebath to greysanatomy [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 badChoices100 The Clown In Chief, Jim (shithead) Cramer don't listen to these assholes. DWAC all the way!

The Clown In Chief, Jim (shithead) Cramer don't listen to these assholes. DWAC all the way! submitted by badChoices100 to DWAC_Stock [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 itwhichbreaksgames Anyone have a clip of Shamans room chaos in a mass?

idc who it is i just want to show a friend what its like
submitted by itwhichbreaksgames to 2007scape [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 ChemistFalse6560 Do any of you guys suffer from genital numbness when you guys tested positive for SIBO etc

I have this genital numbness when i pee or stand my penis becomes numb. Any help ?
submitted by ChemistFalse6560 to SIBO [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 PetsAreCures Earlier today, Duke & Duchess were found trying to evade capture after being wanted for 10 weeks. Both were taken into custody by the same family.

Earlier today, Duke & Duchess were found trying to evade capture after being wanted for 10 weeks. Both were taken into custody by the same family. submitted by PetsAreCures to IllegallySmolCats [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Important-Address363 Paid Job urgent!

Hi, I suffer from social anxiety and depression and cannot deal with confrontation. I need someone to call my work in the morning stating i am sick and will not be attending work today. I will pay for this call. This is urgent!
submitted by Important-Address363 to NoStupidQuestions [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Rollinrollin1000 "contact@crypto.com" for support

HELLO? HELLO? HELLO? ARE YOU SERIOUS YOU PEOPLE ONLY HAVE ONE METHOD OF SUPPORT CONTACT AND YOU DONT EVEN HAVE AN AUTOMATED RESPONSE EMAIL? GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.
submitted by Rollinrollin1000 to Crypto_com [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 wannapetyourkitty How do you feel about Bukowski?

I just bought “Dangling in the Tournefortia”, and I expected it to be gruff and beautiful. It’s not beautiful at all- not even in the pitiful, disgruntled way I expected. I don’t relate to it like I thought I would. I’m so disappointed. I believed I’d love Bukowski. Is he an acquired taste? I don’t respect him.
submitted by wannapetyourkitty to AskAcademia [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 RandomGuy0509 he have blanket always and forever

submitted by RandomGuy0509 to yourturntodie [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 hydro_narco Anyone knows of a good gate only raid server?

submitted by hydro_narco to DayZServers [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 mateomuziik Here are some shots of a music video I made inspired by liminal spaces and shot in a dead mall, video drops tomorrow!! WONDERLANDS OF AMERICA- SAN ANTONIO TX

Here are some shots of a music video I made inspired by liminal spaces and shot in a dead mall, video drops tomorrow!! WONDERLANDS OF AMERICA- SAN ANTONIO TX submitted by mateomuziik to deadmalls [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 lacycharles6 Could MOASS be tomorrow? (Fri 20th)

Okay hear me out GME brethren. And please correct or debunk me If this is wrong.
219,000+ put options expiring OTM (out of the money) this is not including all other PUT options just between $0.50 - $5.00 there are thousands more at higher strikes.
100 shares per option 100 x 219,000 = 21,900,000 shares total $102.67 per share currently $102.67 x 21,900,000 = $2,248,473,000
This could be monumental. This could be MOASS.
DO NOT get too excited or emotional if this does start MOASS because we all need to keep calm and hold as long as we can to really put the pressure on these funds.
Hold for everyone that could get wiped out in this market drop not just for yourself. Be a hand reaching out to those who will be affected most!
Even if it isn’t tomorrow, maintain your resolve! We are Apes and Apes are strongest together!
submitted by lacycharles6 to GME [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 musics_relaxant MÚSICA PARA SONO PROFUNDO E CURA MILAGROSA 432Hz DORMIR RAPIDAMENTE e RELAXAMENTO PROFUNDO

MÚSICA PARA SONO PROFUNDO E CURA MILAGROSA 432Hz DORMIR RAPIDAMENTE e RELAXAMENTO PROFUNDO submitted by musics_relaxant to Noticiasdodia [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 zlei First Morello prototype architecture silicon (memory safety at a hardware level)

submitted by zlei to cpp [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 astralrocker2001 Cover posters for the 2014 film 'The Freemason' show the All-Seeing Eye with Triangle, and Illumination connected as the Freemasonic emblem on the Eye.

Cover posters for the 2014 film 'The Freemason' show the All-Seeing Eye with Triangle, and Illumination connected as the Freemasonic emblem on the Eye. submitted by astralrocker2001 to MatrixReality [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 23:19 Big_Booty_1130 Shady ass company

The company I work for had a meeting today, before my shift and that they didn’t allow all of staff to attend, and announced they are laying off a small percentage of the company. There were rumors about it online but they of course told us they were lies and we had nothing to worry about.
No one discussed this with me or my coworkers, we had to find out from our peers that had attended the meeting (I found out after I clocked out)
Now 2-3% isn’t a lot I guess. But to not let us know it’s happening?! Bullshit.
I’m leaving out as many specifics as I can to not be identified just in case.
submitted by Big_Booty_1130 to antiwork [link] [comments]


http://karavai-dmitrov.ru